A man of status. Women want to be desired by a powerful man. If you’re perceived to be of higher status around the people you interact with, you hold the magical power to attract infinite women into your life.
Status is determined by two things – how you present yourself and how you behave around women.
Although some factors (genetic makeup and wealth) are somewhat out of our control, there are many small changes you can make to appear like a man of status.
Keep fit, hit the gym, eat healthy, and taking pride in what you wear. If you want to attract high value women start dressing like a high value man.
You don’t have to wear designer labels and flash a rolex to dress well. Just start by dressing more like a man than a boy. Like James Bond or Damon Salvatore in the Vampire Diaries, rather than Harold Wolowitz from The Big Bang Theory.
In terms of how you behave around women, your status is determined by your level of confidence.
Confidence. When it comes to attraction, confidence is everything. It’s like catnip to women.
If you’re a man who goes after what he wants, is a leader of people and has a higher perception of himself over others, women will find you attractive.
As opposed to the guy who’s worried about making a move, follows the crowd, and puts women on a pedestal when he talks to them.
If confidence is something you struggle with, here are a few tips to grow naturally confident:
– Assume every girl is interested in you
– Don’t be ashamed to express your sexual desire
– Focus on teasing a girl rather than complimenting her all the time
– Relax your body posture. Keep your chin up and make slow, non-jerky movements when gesticulating and turning your head.
– When talking to a girl, ask questions to get her qualifying herself to you. eg. “Give me one good reason I should buy you a drink?”
Self-love. Attracting women isn’t all about appearing attractive, it’s about being attractive from within, and expressing your positive qualities to the women you interact with.
You can understand why self-loathing guys struggle to get girlfriends. If you play the victim and hold a negative view on everything, women will repel you.
Learn to love yourself first before you can love someone else. Think “Would I date me?”
The more you invest and ‘love yourself’ the more attractive you’ll be in the eyes of women. And with this, you’ll find women come into your life naturally as a by-product to all of this.
To become more attractive within, take pride in your appearance, and focus on pursuing your passions.
Be adventurous, take up something you’ve always wanted to do. Maybe that’s an extreme sport like rock climbing, surfing or motorcross.
But don’t pursue an activity for the sole reason of impressing women. Do it because YOU want to do it. Whatever your hobbies and interests are, it’s extremely attractive if women can sense your passion in the way you talk about them and the amount of time you dedicate in pursuing them.
A sense of humour. If you can make a girl laugh and show you’re fun to be around, she’ll associate positive feelings with you.
Attraction is an emotion, it’s defined by how a girl feels about you. Her attraction for you is not logically determined by a screening process – your job, looks, hobbies and interests.
So don’t treat your interactions with women like an interview. Dull conversation kills attraction. Rather than ask boring questions like “Where are you from?” Instead play the guessing game. “You sound like you’re an Essex girl with that terrible accent of yours”.
Concentrate on showing your funny side, make lighthearted conversation and tease her senseless.
Playful and exciting. Women love the thrill of danger and excitement. They want to be rescued from the boredom of everyday life. If you can be that guy and provide the experience a girl craves, she’ll find you attractive.
To do this, focus on being playful around women. Joke around, be spontaneous, tease them, and tell interesting stories about your life.
And try role playing different situations. Women love role play. Pretend you’re hiding from FBI agents, and need a girl’s help to escort you to the bar unscathed.
The ability to excite a girl is like a drug – give her what she desires, and she’ll keep coming back for more 😉